PHOTOGRAPHY BY: ALEJANDRO MESA
WORDS BY: DR. CYBIL BONHOMME
This March, in recognition of National Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month, Miami Vibes Magazine shines a light on a topic often left in the shadows: colorectal cancer. Our March cover features Kyle Rising Moore, a passionate advocate, public speaker, and survivor dedicated to raising awareness and empowering others to take control of their health. Kyle’s journey from diagnosis to advocacy is not only inspiring but also a powerful reminder of the importance of early detection and education. We sat down with Kyle to hear his story, learn about his mission, and discover how he’s working to spark life-saving conversations about colorectal cancer.
Can you take us back to the moment you were first diagnosed with colon cancer? How did you process the news, and what steps did you take initially to fight it? When I was first diagnosed with stage 4 colorectal cancer, it felt like time stopped. It wasn’t just a diagnosis, it was a collision with my mortality. I wasn’t sitting in a sterile room surrounded by medical professionals. It was “that” phone call. My colon surgeon Dr. Nivedh Paluvoi, MD voice on the other end of the line delivered the kind of news that no one is ever ready to hear.
I was standing in the guest bedroom, starting out at the Miami skyline. The Moon was bright, life was moving, and for just that second everything felt normal. I heard the words: stage 4. But it was as if my mind refused to accept them, like the words didn’t quite belong to me. For a moment, the city outside felt like it was moving on without me, I was frozen in this surreal, silent bubble. Eddy my husband is emotional, and I know this news would shatter him. When I shared it, his reaction was immediate and raw- tears, heartbreak. The kind of overwhelming grief that brings out the “ugly cry” we’re too familiar with. But I couldn’t let myself break down with him. I stayed calm, statue-like, and as steady as I could manage, because I needed to set the tone for how we’d face this storm together.
I remember looking him in the eye and saying ‘This stops now.’ I made it clear: we would fight this with everything we had, but falling apart and imagining the worst wasn’t going to serve us. I told him, “You need to promise me something: no Googling, no spiraling. We will listen to my team of doctors and experts at UM, Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Center. That’s it. We focus on what’s real, not what fear wants us to believe.” In that moment, it wasn’t just about calming him or myself, it was about drawing a line in the sand for both of us. We weren’t going to let cancer define us or dictate our story. From then on. We were partners in this fight, clear on what mattered: showing up strong, staying focused, and trusting the process, no matter how hard the road ahead would be. That clarity gave us the foundation to keep moving forward together.
Colon cancer awareness is a critical topic. What do you wish more people knew about early detection and the importance of regular screenings? Colon Cancer awareness is a conversation we need to amplify, especially because it’s so preventable and treatable if caught early. What I wish more people knew is that this isn’t just a disease that affects older adults, its hitting younger people at alarming rates. Early detection saves lives. It’s that simple. A colonoscopy is not just another medical test; it’s a powerful tool that can catch polyps before they become cancerous. It can literally stop cancer in its tracks. But so many people avoid it out of fear, embarrassment, or just because they think they’re too young to need it. That mindset is dangerous.
I also want people to understand the symptoms that could signal something is wrong. Blood in your stool, persistent abdominal pain, unexplained weight loss or constant fatigue are all red flags. Ignoring those signs our of shame or denial can be a life-threatening mistake. Screening isn’t about protection yourself, it’s about protecting your family, too. When you get screened, you’re setting an example. You’re saying,
“My health is worth it” If I could go back and give myself one gift, it would’ve been the gift of earlier detection.
Let me say this clearly: a colonoscopy might be uncomfortable for a day, but it’s nothing compared to battling stage 4 cancer. This disease doesn’t discriminate, and it doesn’t wait. The sooner we normalize talking about it and prioritizing screening, the more lives we’ll save. Don’t wait for the storm like I did, take action now.
March is Colon Cancer Awareness Month. What message would you like to share with our readers to inspire them to prioritize their health? March is Colon Cancer Awareness Month, and it’s the perfect time to remind ourselves that health is the foundation of everything we value. Our families, our dreams, and our future. My message is simple: don’t wait.
Colon cancer is preventable, treatable, and beatable when caught early. The best way to protect yourself is through awareness, regular screening, and paying attention to your body. A colonoscopy isn’t just a procedure; its a lifesaving act of self-care. If you are near or at 45, schedule your screening. If you’re younger and experiencing symptoms or unexplained changes in your health, do not ignore them. Push past any discomfort or fear and talk to your doctor.
I also want to highlight the incredible resources available through organizations like the Colon Cancer Alliance. Their work provides not only vital education about early detection but also emotional and practical support for patients and family navigation of this disease. You don’t have to face this alone, there is a community ready to support and guide you every step of the way. This isn’t just about statistics or campaigns, its personal.
I’m standing here as someone in the fight of my life because I didn’t know the importance of early detection. If sharing my story helps even one person avoid the storm I’ve been through, then it's worth it. Your health is the most precious gift you have. Prioritize it, protect it, and encourgat those you love to do the same. Let March be the month you take action. Because the sooner we all commit to putting our health first, the more lives we can save together. Reach out, get screened, get a second opion, and know there’s support available every step of the way.
Your journey of overcoming colon cancer is deeply inspiring. What were some of the most challenging moments during your treatment and recovery, and how did you find the strength to push through? Overcoming adversity has been the defining arc of my journey with stage 4 colorectal cancer, and I share every raw, unapologetic detail in my book, Beyond the Storm: A Life in Full Color. One of the most challenging moments wasn’t just the diagnosis, it is the aftermath of surgery and chemo. The combo needed to save my life also destroyed my body in ways I’m still working to rebuild. The scars, the pain, the loss of intimacy and connection, they’ve been constant reminders of how much cancer has taken. Some days, even simple movements feel like a battle.
But what kept me pushing forward was the promise I made to myself and my husband, Eddy: that this disease would not define me. Even on the hardest days, I chose to focus on rebuilding, not just my body, but my spirit. I leaned on my medical team, my faith and those quiet moments of resilience, like standing at the window, looking our at the Miami skyline, and reminding myself that storms don't last forever. What truly gave me purpose was transforming my pain into power by sharing my story. That’s why I wrote Beyond the Storm. The book isn’t just a chronicle of my fight , its a blueprint of anyone facing their own storms. Its about finding strength in the rubble, hope in the darkest corners and the courage to rebuild, no matter how broken you feel.
The truth is, I’m still rebuilding. But every day is proof that there’s beauty in the process, even when it feels impossible. Beyond the Storm is my way of showing others that while cancer changes you, it doesn't have to define you. We all have the power to rise, fight, and create a life that’s stronger, bolder and more vibrant than we ever imagined.
Were there any specific people, practices, or philosophies that kept you motivated during your battle with cancer? First and foremost, the unwavering support and medical care I received from the University of Miami’s Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Center was nothing short of extraordinary. My team of doctors, nurse, and staff didn’t just treat me, they fought alongside me, giving me the strength to face each challenge head-on.
Beyond the medical care, it was the people in my life who truly carried me through. My inner circle of friends became my lifeline. These are the poeple who showed up in ways I’ll never forget-weather it was sitting with me during treatments, brining laughter to dark days, or simply being there when words weren’t enough. Their strength and love reminded me that I wasn’t walking the road alone.
I also found inspiration in the kindness of strangers. Organization like MAN UP TO CANCER, the Colorectal Cancer Alliance, and Cheeky Charity provided resources, connection, and hope when I needed it most. Cheeky Charity, in particular, as an LGBTQ+ colon cancer support group, gave me a safe space where I felt seen and understood. And even people I didn’t know personally-messages of encouragement, stories from other fighters, and small acts of kindness form complete strangers, helped carry me forward when I felt like I had nothing left to give.
My personal philosophy was to focus on what I could control: my mindset, my resilience, and the promise I made to myself to rise above this storm. Journaling, lots of meditating, and finding solace in the beauty of the Miami skyline helped ground me, bit it was the people, my friends and family, my husband and even those who crossed my path unexpectedly who reminded me wy i had to keep fighting.
These people and organizations didn’t just help me survive, they gave me the courage to thrive. Their impact lives on in Beyond the Storm, where i hope to pay it forward and show others that even in life’s darkest storms, there’s a community ready to help you find the light.
How has your perspective on life changed since overcoming this illness? My perspective on life has completely transformed since facing stage 4 colorectal cancer. Before my diagnosis, I was living for my ego- chasing achievements, accolades, and the outward validation that came with them. I thought success meant climbing higher, doing more, and constantly proving myself. But cancer stripped all of that away, leaving me to confront the ray truth: none of those things mattered if I wasn't using my life to make a real impact. The experience humbled me and gave me clarity about the people and priorities in my life. It forced me to reevaluate everything I thought was important and to shipft my foucs from self-serving goals to serving others. I realized that my fight wasn’t just about surviving, it was about using what I’d been through to help others navigate their own storms.
In that process, I had to make difficult decision to leave behind people who no longer served me or added value to my life. Cancer taught me that I don’t have the energy or time for relationships that drain me or hold me back. Surrounding myself with people who genuinely support, uplift and inspire me has been one of the most liberating changes I’ve made. Most importantly, through this journey, I found my titanium voice, a voice rooted in resilience, strength, and unapologetic truth. It’s a voice I use to advocate for myself, to set boundaries, and to help others see the power within themselves. It’s a voice that refuse to be silenced by fear or adversity. Stripping back my ego, letting go of toxic connections, and embracing my titanium voice gave me purpose and freedom. It taught me that life isn’t about what you can accumulate but what give, and who you share it with. Whether it’s being there for someone who feels like they have no hope left or simply sharing the lessons I’ve learned along the way, I’ve found my calling in lifting others up.
Now, my mindset is completely different. Every day is about purpose, not performance. Its about helping other survive, thrive, and see the light in their darkest moments while keeping my circle filled with love, positivity, and authenticity. Cancer didn’t just change my body, it redefined my soul. Letting go of what now longer served me, embracing my titanium voice, and focusing on connection, impact and legacy of hope has made all the difference.
Congratulations on your book, Beyond the Storm: A Life Full of Color! Can you share the inspiration behind writing it and what you hope readers take away from your story? Thank you so much! The inspiration behind writing Beyond the Storm: A Life in Full Color came from the storms I’ve faced in my own life, particularly my battle with stage 4 colorectal cancer, my journey with adoptions and the challenges in my marriage. These experiences taught me profound lessons about resilience, hope, and the power of vulnerability. I wanted to share my truth in raw and unapologetic way to help others realize that even in life’s darkest moments, there is an opportunity to rise, rebuild, and shine. What I hope readers takeaway is that life is not just about surviving-it’s about thriving in the aftermath of adversity. I want people to see that their scars, whether physical or emotional, are symbols of strength. My story is a testament to the idea that no matter the storm, we all have an invincible power within us to transform pain into purpose and create a legacy that inspires others. My hope is that readers feel empowered to live boldly, love deeply, and embrace their own storms as opportunities to grow.
The title of your book suggests resilience and optimism. How does it reflect your journey, and what does "a life full of color" mean to you? The title Beyond the Storm:A Life in Full Color perfectly encapsulates my journey and the transformation I’ve experienced. It reflects resilience because I’ve faced some of life’s harshest storms, battling stage 4 cancer, navigating adoption heartbreak, and redefining relationships, and I’ve come out the other side stronger, with a deeper understanding of who I am. The title also carries optimism, showing that life after the storm is not just about healing but about thriving and embracing the beauty in all its shades. To me “a life full of color” means living unapologetically, embracing every part of human experience, the highs, the lows, and everything in between. It’s about finding beauty in imperfections, celebrating small victories, and seeing the world with renewed sense of gratitude and wonder. A life in full colo is one where you don’t survive the storm, you frow because of it, and you let it inspire you to shine brighter than ever before that’s the message I hope resonates with my readers.
What was the writing process like for you? Did it serve as a therapeutic outlet or a way to connect with others who might be facing similar challenges? The writing process for Beyond the Storm was transformative, both therapeutic outlet and a bridge to connect with others. On one hand, it gave me a safe space to unpack the storms in my life, from battling stage 4 cancer to navigating deeply personal challenges like adoption struggles and strained relationships. Writing allowed me to confront raw truth and process emotions I hadn’t fully explored. On the other hand, it was a way to reach out and say, “You’re not alone.” Every word was written with someone in mind, those facing a diagnosis, weathering a storm, or feeling like their hope was running dry.
My goal was to create a voice that resonates deeply and inspires people to rise and thrive in the face of adversity. Writing this book wasn’t just about telling my story; it was about making sure other feel seen, heard, and empowered to move beyond their own storms.
You’ve become an advocate for health and wellness since your recovery. What initiatives or projects are you currently involved in to bring awareness to colon cancer? Since my diagnosis and journey as a stage 4 fighter, advocacy for healthy and wellness has become central to my life. I’m deeply committed to raising awareness about colorectal cancer, especially young-onset cases, which are becoming alarmingly more common.
Currently, I’m working closely with the Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Center to amplify their mission and share my story as one of the faces of cancer for the University of Miami. I’ve also become actively involved in Cheeky Charities, participation in support calls to provide encouragement and insight for others navigating this difficult journey. I’m also proud to be part of the Colon Cancer Advocates Buddy Program, which connects newly diagnosed patients with mentors who have been through the journey. As a mentor, i provide guidance, emotional support, and practical advice to help other feel less isolated and more empowered during treatment.
In addition, I’ll be joining the PGA Tour’s Colorguard Classic to promote the importance of early screening, a vital step in saving lives. Advocacy doesn’t stop there, I’m honored to take part in the Call to Congress, engaging with lawmakers to address the urgent need for awareness, funding, and legislative action regarding colorectal cancer. This initiative is particularly significant in Miami-Dade, where disparities in healthcare access and education can impact early detection and treatment outcomes.
Through these efforts, I hope to empower individuals and communities with knowledge and resources, ensuring no one feels alone in their fight against colorectal cancer.
How do you envision your story and your book influencing others’ journeys with cancer or other life challenges? I envision my story in Beyond the Storm serving as a beacon of hope, resilience, and truth for anyone facing cancer or life’s most daunting challenges. My journey is not just about fighting stage 4 cancer, its about navigating the storm of loss, failed dreams, and strained relationships while still finding the strength to rise. I want reader to see themselves in the pages, to feel empowered to confront their fears, their pain, and their doubts head-on. By sharing the raw and unfiltered truth of my experiences, i hope to show that even in life’s darkest moments, there’s an invincible light within each of us that refuses to be extinguished.
This book isn’t just about surviving; its about learning to thrive in the aftermath of the storm, embracing the scars, and finding beauty in the broken pieces. Whether someone is battling cancer, dealing with loss, or simply struggling to find their footing, I want them to feel seen, understood, and inspired to rise above their circumstances. If my story can spark even a small flame of hope in someone’s journey, then sharing it will have been worth everything.
What advice would you give to someone who has just been diagnosed with cancer and is struggling to stay hopeful? If you’ve just been diagnosed with cancer and are struggling to stay hopeful, the first thing i want you to know is this: you are not alone, and it’s ok to feel scared, angry or overwhelmed. Those emotions are part of the process, but they don’t define you or your journey.
Take it one moment at a time. Don’t try to climb the whole mountain at once, focus on the next step in front of you. Let go of the need to have all the answers right now and trust that you’ll find your way, even if it’s messy and uncertain.
This is the one time in your life you get to be completely selfish. Prioritize yourself unapologetically, check in say I LOVE YOU to yourself looking in the mirror, your energy, your healing, and your well-being. Advocate for what you need, set boundaries, and lean into self-care, because you deserve it. It’s going to suck, and there will be days when if feels unbearable but you have to find the power within to rise above.
Surround yourself with people who lift you up, whether it’s friends, family, support groups, or even fellow patients. SOmetimes the biggest comfort comes from those who truly understand what you’re facing. Programs like the Colon Cancer Advocates Buddy Program can connect you with someone who’s walked a similar path and can provide guidance and encouragement.
Hope can be hard to hold onto, especially in the face of fear, but it’s often found in the smallest, quietest places: a sunrise, a kind word, or even just the determination to show up for another day. Don’t confuse hope with positivity, its not about pretending everything is fine. Hope is about believing that no matter how dark the storm, you have the strength to weather it.
Most importantly, be gentle with yourself. This is your battle, and you get to fight it in your own way, at your own pace. Trust that there is light beyond this storm, even if you can’t see it yet. You are stronger that you know, and your story is far from over.
What’s next for you? Are there any upcoming projects, events, or initiatives you’re excited to share with our readers?What’s next for me is a continuation of the mission I’ve built through Beyond the Storm Foundation and my book, Beyond the Storm: A Life in Full Color. One o the most exciting initiatives I’m working on right now is the Connecting Kids Beyond the Storm project, where we provide iPads, gift cards, and Karl the Koala stuffed animals to children and teens newly diagnosed with colon cancer.
This program is all about giving these young fighters a sense of connection and hope during some of the darkest moments of their journey.
I’m also thrilled to be working on my first children’s book, which introduces Fancy and her trusted companion Karl the Koala. Fancy is a vibrant and courageous character navigating her own storm while teaching young readers valuable lessons about strength, gratitude, and hope. Karl, her North Star, is a symbol of guidance and love, always by her side to help her and the readers find light in the darkest times. The book will be a tool for families facing similar challenges, offering a message of resilience and connection.
In addition to my advocacy work, my husband Eddy and I are on a incredibly personal journey as we work toward adopting from the foster care system. It’s been a challenging process, filled with hope, setbacks, and love, but it’s also been one of the most rewarding experiences of our lives. Becoming parents has brought new meaning to the idea of resilience , and I’m excited to share more about this chapter in the future.
Through all of these projects, I’m passionate about inspiring others to find their own strength, rise above life’s storms, and create a legacy of hope and love.
How do you balance your advocacy work with personal passions and self-care? Balancing advocacy work, personal passion and self-care is all about intention, boundaries, and gratitude for me. Fitness, nutrition, and sleep are at the core of how I take care of myself, both physically and mentally. Movement has been a powerful way to reclaim my body after everything I’ve been through. Whether it's a personalized routine guided by my physical therapist at the University of Miami or simply taking tome to stretch and move, fitness gives me strength and clarity. Nutrition is jus as important, fueling my body with the right foods is a form of self-respect that allows me to feel my best every day. And prioritizing sleep has become non-negotiable. Rest is where the body and mind rebuild, and I’ve learned to honor that without guilt.
I also practice gratitude in all areas of my life, even when things feel difficult. Gratitude has taught me to focus on the good, no matter how small, and it sings my perspective allowing me to move forward with hope and resilience. Whether it’s appreciating the sunrise, a moment of connection, or simply how far I’ve come, gratitude keeps me grounded and centered.
One of the biggest shifts I’ve made is choosing to longer associate the environments where egos take precedence over values. I realized that giving my energy to someone else’s ego left little room for my own growth, passions, and purpose. Letting go of those situations has been transformative, allowing me to focus on the people, projects, and causes that truly align with my heart and mission. I’ve also learned to let negativity flow through me without letting it stick. Not every person or situation is meant for me, and that’s okay. This mindset has freed up so much emotional energy, allowing me to embrace what truly matters, my mission, my passion and the people who lift me up.
Finally, what’s the one mantra or quote you live by that you’d like to leave our readers with? Facing the reality of being given potentially five months to live was the moment everything shifted for me. I chose to not just survive but to thrive, and that’s only possible through personal faith, a strong mindset, and leaving egos at the door. One mantra I live by is this: God is good all the time, and all the time, God is good. No matter the storm, that truth carries me forward. When you focus on what truly matters, let go of what doesn’t serve you, and trust the strength within, you’ll find there’s nothing you can’t rise above.
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